Manners are different in every country, but true politeness and impact can be seen everywhere the same way. A person who is carrying goodness within him/herself, have always been dressed up in good manners and etiquettes. There is no policy like politeness- and a good manner is the best thing in the world to get a good name and valuable recognition. Good manners are a part of good morals, and we get it through by Education, Knowledge and lastly from our surroundings like home, school etc. Good manners are the art of making those around us easy and comfortable. Good manners should always begin at home. Politeness is not a jewel or cloth to be worn in all dress only to be put on, in spite of that it is that vision which everybody should have in their language, behaviour and off course in their attitude. A person always gain more by being content to be seen as he is in real than by attempting to appear what he is not really. Good manners are the result of much good sense, some good nature, and a little self-kind heart which sometimes touch the emotions, feelings and heart of others in real appreciation manner. It should be socially realized from the heart, for remembering always by everyone that the worth of manners in real sense consists in being the sincere expressions of feelings and emoting absolute emotions.
The young students should behave mannerly, but sometimes they often feel timid, bashful and self-distrustful at that moment whenever they are introduced by a stranger in front of many people. There is only one way to get over this feeling that is they should start learning aspects of manners from home with help of their parents and also from their school by taking the help from their teachers, friends etc. Good manners are not learned so much as easily by habit only. We all must be courteous, energetic, kind, enthusiastic, a good learner only then we can be able to earn all manner qualities in us. It is truly observed that however if we all behave at our home in a rough and noisy manner, then, in the same way, we will be behaving with the strangers outside. So, it is our moral duty and responsibility to adopt such kind of things within us which will help us to lead our lives in the most convenient and centred way. The most agreeable persons in a company are those who are the most agreeable at home. Home is the school for all the best things which we all gain and face in our life at every stage of our age.
Good manners are an essential part of our life-education, career and wisdom. It is quite interesting, that without the help of special training, no false examples, no conventionalities but because of our own nature, the gifts of good sense, a true sense of pride are sufficient measures which enable us to feel free and face our life easily and admirably. The true art of being an agreeable person is to appear well pleased with all the company and face all the situations with a gentle and kind heart and cool attitude. If a man disposed himself, perhaps he may not have much sense, learning, but if he has common sense in him or her, and something friendly in his behaviour, then for sure it reflects men's minds more than the brightest parts without this disposition. It is merely believed that a sweet smile, the quiet expression, an intelligent and polite movement in addressing a friend or especially a stranger, whom one may recommend to our good regards always get our graceful attention, which is so captivating and positively marks our impression on them. Last, but not the least there is a certain softness of manner which should be cultivated in every human being which adds a charm that always entirely compensates for a lack of beauty and mind in them.
One of the most important and remarkable aspects of a character is the manner in which we conduct ourselves toward others. A graceful, active and impressive behaviour toward superiors, inferiors, and equals is a constant source of pleasure and happiness in one’s life. It pleases others because it indicates respect for their personality and outlook, but it gives tenfold more pleasure to ourselves. Every person should become a self-educator in good behaviour and a positive attitude to a large extent so, that he/she may get earn easily for their living hood. We all should believe one thing that dignity should be exist in our own minds, only then the want of manners can vanish away completely automatically. The language of a man is a perfect real good index of his character. It is quietly observed that an educated, cultivated and refined person always, speak softly, quietly, gently in such that manner that their every word is uttered with composure, even under bad situations also. Sometimes persons like these if are annoyed and out of mind also, even then their way of communicating has expressive silence and though they always maintain their self-respect.
